Is my spouse controlling?
The following list will give you a good idea of the vast variety of tactics used by controlling men. They could help you identify some that are being used against you.
As you read these lists, check the ones that seem familiar to you. Then, read your answers again to see how many you checked. Taken individually, many of these might seem unimportant, but your answers could reveal meaningful tendencies. And don’t forget, this list covers just some of the tactics spouses could use.
These examples are very specific, and many of them may not be relevant to your spouse’s behaviour.